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I also didn’t love the Dutch House! But I did love Tom Lake (however, I read it whilst pregnant with a daughter so I do think that shaped my reading). I think Commonwealth is her best book personally!

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its super interesting how Ann's writing is polarizing like this! I was the opposite, loved The Dutch House and Tom Lake was slowww and just okay. We can agree on Commonwealth though, i did love it!

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Aug 9Author

This is good intel! I’ll definitely try it!

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Best athletic shorts are Nike tempo shorts. Perfect rise for me, not too much fabric bunching in the front when I sit. 💪🏼

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Aug 14Author

Thank you! Not too much bunching is a selling point for sure!

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Ohh I remember when I start writing on Substack, I was so worried if people wouldn't like it. Ha! What I failed to consider was whether a large audience would see it to hate it. It really is a freeing feeling. As a reader, I rarely notice when a newsletter comes out late or is skipped. I'm just happy to see it when it arrives. On a side note, Princess of Las Vegas sounds intriguing and a perfect off ramp from royal biographies!

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Aug 9Author

See, I love this! The freedom to do whatever we need or want to do and really, the only person who really notices is ourself. What a gift!

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Aug 9·edited Aug 9Liked by Jen

Yess. This opening act is a good reminder. I once wrote: “nobody is thinking about your newsletter as much as you are”. You don’t haveee to announce your departure and arrival (I mean sure you can! Maybe you’re a planner and this helps) but it’s sort of imminent. The newsletter is the thing, you’re here or you not, no big cackle either way.

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Aug 9Author

I love that. Sometimes I hit publish and think it’s not my best work, but who cares! Nobody but me!

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I try Ann Patchett over and over and have yet to finish one of her books. I want to like her so bad! I feel like a failure for not devouring them all. ☠️

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The highlight of this whole newsletter had to be the veggie quiz :) a friend group text shares a “friday fave” (as the name likely suggests, something we’ve been into that week) and this was mine because of how truly absurdly delightful it was.

Signed,

A Carrot

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Aug 11Author

Thank you thank you thank you for playing along! I agree - that quiz is such a diamond in the rough. The website looks like it was made in 2002 and never updated, but the quiz results are oddly specific and satisfying. I encouraged everyone in my department at work to take it and I don't know what I'm going to do with the results, but I saved them. Two of the most organized gals I know at work wound up being carrots and I feel like I know you just the smallest bit now :)

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Let me tell you about Anne Patchett and I (I got it, nobody cares, but I still get to talk like her and I are friends).... I picked "Bel Canto" for my first book club book and nobody cared for my choosing. The Dutch House came up as a selection later and I really enjoyed that one! So, I'm super conflicted if Anne and I will go the distance but other people love her so very much and I want to too because I have this intense need to please people!! ...Perhaps I should go back and read this post lol. Great one, really enjoyed it.

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Aug 9Author

Speaking of not caring, I should probably take my own advice! You just reminded me that, especially with books like Tom Lake, I always wonder what's wrong with me when I don't love a book that is beloved by all the other book people. I bet nobody cares if I DNF a book at all!

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Right… I think it’s just a reminder how individual we are as people! I recently joined a book club and it’s fascinating to hear others perspectives / concepts or details they picked up on that I hadn’t even considered. Hopefully, I contribute some value, too 😁

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I get your point about people letting you know they’re back and I’m like ‘good to know’ in a very uninterested way!

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Aug 9Author

Isn’t it wonderful to know we can go about our lives largely unsurveiled!

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